My desire secrets

Thoughtfulness

Thoughtfulness is a concept that many people find difficult. They think that just giving gifts is enough to satisfy people who are ruled by this love secret. The fact is that people who thrive on thoughtfulness do not care as much about the gift itself. Instead, they love the fact that someone thought of them enough to spend time choosing, packaging and bringing them a gift. It is the time that goes into the gift rather than the gift itself that these people thrive on.

For someone who thrives on thoughtfulness, the idea that someone spent the time to find out what they liked is very meaningful. They themselves will spend hours obsessing over small details such as the type of wrapping and the card that will be included. The idea that someone might simply purchase something for them without thinking about it is not only inconceivable, it is hurtful as well.

Everyone can benefit from this love secret. If you start remembering the gifts that people have given you through the years, the chances are good that some gifts will stick out. They may not have been the most expensive and they were often not given at a time when one was expected. They may not have even been a material object at all. It may have been a card, a letter or even a helping hand that was given to you. The most memorable gifts are the ones given by people who put great thought and attention into what they were giving or doing.

How To Tell If You Are Affected Most By This Love Secret

As with the other love secrets, it is not surprising that if you are extremely thoughtful that you will expect others to be that way as well. If you are ruled most by this particular love secret, you will generally be considered by others to be extremely thoughtful. Here are a few key signs that this love secret matters most to you:

• You tend to be upset if someone forgets an anniversary or birthday. You do not regret that you missed out on a gift. These significant dates are a way for others to show that they have paid attention to your wants and needs and are gifting you with an item that reflects these. If that is forgotten, it is very upsetting to you.

• You are someone who is happiest if you have the opportunity to show others you care by gifting them with items.

• It takes you a very long time to pick out gifts or cards for the people in your life. A card, for example, needs to have meaning that is directly related to the person as well as the occasion.

• You tend to spend a long time wrapping the gift. Preparing the gift for giving with wrapping that the person will appreciate is another way for you to express how much that person means to you.

• A gift which is practical but still what you asked for or needed is appreciated more than a gift which may be fun but which has not had a lot of thought put into it. A gift that is totally unsuitable will upset you greatly.

How To Tell If Your Partner Thrives Most On Thoughtfulness

If you are in a relationship with a person who values thoughtfulness the most, it can be an interesting experience. There are times when you may get a reaction to a gift that is totally unexpected. It can be hard to understand why a large, extravagant present may get a lukewarm reaction whereas a small, inexpensive gift or one that is handmade may get a much more enthusiastic response.
If your partner is affected most by thoughtfulness rather than any other love secret they may:

• Become very upset if a birthday or anniversary is missed

• Tend to give gifts for minor occasions or even for no reason whatsoever

• Tend to choose blank cards where they can write information by hand or add extra writing to a preprinted card in order to personalize it more

If your partner is someone who is affected most by thoughtfulness you may think that they will be easy to please. This is not the case. The instant someone receives a gift with no perceived thought behind it they will likely become very upset and it is something that they will remember for years to come. If you want to avoid this you need to find ways to personalize the gifts that you give them even if it is in a small way.

Ways That You Can Work Thoughtfulness Into Your Daily Routine

If you want to find ways to work thoughtfulness into your daily routine you may worry that this will be expensive to do. Many people equate a good gift with one that is expensive. That is not actually the case. People who thrive on thoughtfulness actually pay more attention to the thought behind the gift rather than the amount that it cost.

Working thoughtfulness into your daily routine is less a matter of spending money than it is spending time getting to know your partner or spouse. Listening to them when they talk about things that they like or need as well as paying attention to their emotional state can help guide you as to the best time to slip them a little pick me up present or give you an idea about what matters to them when a more conventional gift giving opportunity comes along.

These people also appreciate a meal that is prepared for them or a card that is slipped onto their pillow in the morning. It shows that you are thinking about them rather than simply taking them for granted. The thought that they are being taken for granted is something that is very upsetting to people who thrive on thoughtfulness.

If you keep notes on things that your partner prefers or times that were most significant to that person you will be able to link gifts or favors that you give them to times that were significant to that person. For example, they may love a vial of sand from a beach that you walked along together or take-out desert from a favorite restaurant that may cheer them up when they are having a bad day.

Wrapping and preparing a gift will also help make a person who thrives on thoughtfulness feel fulfilled. Even if you have no skill at wrapping, taking the time to try may make them happier than a gift which has been professionally wrapped by someone other than you.

Thoughtfulness does not simply apply to material gifts. There are many ways that you can work thoughtfulness into your daily routine and many of them do not have anything to do with gifts at all. By showing your partner or spouse that you can tell what their emotional or physical needs are and provide assistance or service can be a great way to show thoughtfulness. In many ways, this can be very similar to acts of unselfishness and, in many ways they do tend to overlap. Here are some examples that you may want to incorporate into your everyday life:

Everyone loves to have a night off. From time to time, you may want to take on those tasks which your partner would normally perform. If you see that they are tired, offer to make dinner, help the children with their homework or, if money permits, get take out so that you can simply share some quality time with one another.

If you see that your partner is working from home, offer to take care of other responsibilities so that they are not forced to look up from their work and can get their tasks finished more quickly. You may also want to see if there is anything that you can do to help. Sometimes, even having someone to perform routine minor tasks can be a great help to your partner.

Bring home a favorite food or beverage that you would not normally purchase. If you love to cook, prepare it for your partner. This shows that you remember what their preferences are and can be a great way to show that you are thinking of your partner.

Remember that by showing acts of thoughtfulness on a daily basis, it will become easier in time. You will learn which acts are received best by your partner. By doing so on a regular basis, your partner will feel less like you are trying to "buy their affection" in times when you may be experiencing conflict.

If you have never shown gifts of thoughtfulness before and you only do so in times when you and your partner are disagreeing, it can be a very dangerous situation. You may be accused of trying to buy them things in order to get out of trouble and this can lead to additional conflict.

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Yes! No matter how well you know your guy (or think you do), there are things he's never gonna share. What's he hiding? Find out here then learn how to deal


When you first start dating a guy, it makes sense that he would conceal stuff he's not particularly proud of his disorderly apartment, his hairy back, his mother's daily phone calls. But by the time you're a serious couple maybe even living together you probably assume you know your bedmate's every last habit, flaw, and idiosyncrasy. Don't be so sure.

According to new research published in The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, one in 10 men are harboring serious sex secrets of one kind or another. "There are two kinds of secrets guys keep," says Les Parrott, author of Crazy Good Sex. "Things they wish their wives or girlfriends would understand but are scared they won't, and things they're just plain trying to get away with."

With that in mind, we polled hundreds of men to learn what they hide at each stage in a relationship and enlisted experts to offer their insights. We discovered there's a decent chance your man is keeping at least one dirty secret. Read on to find out what, if anything, you should do about this potentially huge relationship issue.

When You're Dating...

What he's hiding: The number of women he's had sex with
Some men exaggerate to sound more sexually experienced; others lowball so you don't dismiss them as players. "Men know that if they confess to a large number of partners, it sends the message that they're unlikely to commit to one. That is, to you," says David Buss, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and author of The Evolution of Desire.

What you should do Take him at his word, but protect yourself. Be vigilant about using a condom every time you have sex—at least until you've both been tested for STDs and you feel secure that you're in a committed relationship. If you do somehow discover that he's deceived you about his sexual history, get it out in the open, but give him a chance to explain. "He could have fibbed out of embarrassment, insecurity, or sincere interest in you," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.

What he's hiding: He looks at porn—maybe a lot
According to a study at Brigham Young University, 87 percent of men have looked at some form of porn in the past year, and one in five help themselves to X-rated fare daily. Men like to look at naked chicks—no surprise there—but what is shocking is how quickly they can become dependent on those erotic images. A powerful pleasure cocktail of endorphins and epinephrine (hormones responsible for arousal and alertness) are released while a man watches porn, Parrott says. And that feeling can become addictive.

What you should do Occasional porn isn't the problem; it only becomes a wrecking ball when it starts to intrude on your sex life together. "The two big questions are 'Is it interfering with your life and relationship?' and 'Is he using it to avoid something?'" says sex therapist Sandor Gardos, Ph.D. If he actively hides his material and makes excuses to avoid having sex, be concerned.

Broach the subject when you're calm and rational. "Angry accusations never go over well," Gardos says. Another tactic: Suggest watching together. "It becomes compulsive when he feels like he has to hide it," he says. So if you're willing to share it with him, you'll take the compulsion out of the equation. Plus, experts say, viewing erotic images together can enhance your sex life.


What he's hiding: He compares you to his last girlfriend
It's true: Your guy whips out his ex ruler and measures everything about you: your looks, your bedroom abilities, how well you get along with his friends. But that's not necessarily a bad thing. "It's normal to make comparisons, and an ex is his most recent reference point," says Christopher Blazina, Ph.D., associate professor of psychology at Tennessee State University.

What you should do Nothing. He'll inevitably come to the conclusion that you blow away anyone else he's ever been with, and the silent comparathon raging in his mind will cease. When you should do something: if he frequently blurts out things like "My ex always..." or "My last girlfriend never..." It's not necessarily a sign that he hasn't gotten over her, but it can still be hurtful, Blazina says. When that happens, it's fair to tell him, for example, that you don't want him bringing up the details of their trip to Mexico. Chances are, he's not even aware he's been doing it and will be happy to stop.

There are a few basic truths which you should be aware of if you want a successful relationship. Having this knowledge will enable you to transform a mediocre relationship into something deeply satisfying. Although these truths are founded in common-sense, it's as though they've been forever locked away in a vault for only the lucky few to access. It's time to share these secrets with everyone.

The first secret is to give up living in hopeful fantasy and to see and accept your partner for who they really are. If this new clarity means that you discover some intolerable or unacceptable behaviors or attitudes on their part, then don't waste anyone's time and just walk away. Knowing the truth gives you the power to take good care of yourself. You'll be avoiding a whole lot of misery in this way.

You also need to know that your partner fully sees and accepts you as you are. There's no point in presenting a "cleaned up" version of yourself to them because then the person that they're loving isn't the real you. You can never feel truly loved if you're showing them an inauthentic self. If you've shown your true self to your partner and they can't accept it, again, walk away. Nothing's going to change.

The second secret in successful romance is not to make your partner responsible for giving your life meaning. Both people should be complete beings; each with their own life, friends and attitudes. You should complement each-other rather than complete each-other. Each person needs to bring something of value to the table, and you must remain separate and distinct individuals while developing your connection.

Becoming overly-enmeshed and giving up your identity in a relationship is a sure way of creating unhappiness. Your partner chose you for your unique qualities. Losing them would mean depriving your partner of what they liked about you in the first place. It won't make you happy to give up important parts of yourself and it will only make you that much less attractive to your partner.

The third secret of a successful relationship is mutual respect. There is no place in a healthy interaction for contempt, shaming or being dismissive toward one-another. As soon as any of these attitudes become part of the relationship, it's doomed. Both individuals must value their partner's needs, feelings, thoughts and dreams.

The fourth secret of success is trust. There can be no real intimacy without profound trust. This trust should be based, however, on both people demonstrating to each-other through their actions that they are trust-worthy. When you have seen that your partner means what they say and keeps their promises, and when they've seen the same in you, real trust can take place. This makes it possible for both of you to be vulnerable and yet safe.

The fifth secret of a good relationship is not to expect the other person to heal your emotional wounds. This means that as wonderful as love is, it isn't the cure for what ails you. It's your responsibility to work on whatever emotional baggage you might be carrying from your childhood or from previous relationships, as opposed to burdening your partner with this expectation.

Finally, the biggest secret of all: make your partner happy and they'll do everything they can to make you happy, too. There is an exception to this, however. Your partner must be emotionally healthy enough to reciprocate your love and attention. If you've been trying your best to make them happy and they aren't doing the same for you, it means that things will always be one-sided and that it's time to leave.

A successful romance is mainly a matter of common sense. Be realistic with your partner; stay true to yourselves; maintain your separate identities; be kind and generous and don't burden each-other with inappropriate expectations. When you come together as conscious, responsible adults with lots of love to give, you can't help but create a meaningful and satisfying union.

I'm willing to go out on a limb here and say that there isn't a person on the planet that doesn't have a desire of some kind. I'll even go out on another limb and state that every person on the planet has more than one desire at a time. Whether it's wanting more money, a new home, a relationship, more sleep, more love in the world or even a desire to laugh more in life, it's all about wanting something we don't have at the moment we are wanting it. Depending on any one person's circumstance, each desire can feel just as unattainable and create a feeling of frustration and/or hopelessness.

Here's the truth about desires; we will always have unfulfilled desires and it's because of that, you will continue to grow and expand in your life. Whenever you reach one place or fulfill one desire, you will then automatically find yourself moving to the next place with the next desire. There is nothing wrong with this. This is human nature and to find yourself in a place of having desires and having them fulfilled is exhilarating. It can almost become a game and there are a few rules, that when followed accordingly, can create the feeling of winning even before your desire has manifested.

Rule #1: When you're in a place with unfulfilled desires remember to not feel a sense of fear, anxiety, frustration or even impatience. Did I just hear a, "Yeah, right," with a tone of sarcasm in there? That's fine. I know how you feel. I've been there myself only to realize once I started playing by the Universe's rules and not my own, everything changed for me. You see it's those exact emotions that keep your desires from being fulfilled because you're not in a receiving place. It's not your job to figure out all the ways to get your desires fulfilled. It is your job to be very clear in asking for what you want and to trust with all your heart everything will come to you at the perfect time. When you get the urge to take an action toward fulfilling your desire that feels wonderful to you, then do so. But only if it feels right. Do not push action on yourself just because you think you should be doing something. That will only bring you more frustration and you won't have any fun in the process.

Rule #2: Focus on what is working in your life and feeling more of your true essence more often. Ask yourself anytime you're full of doubt and fear, "What is working?" Allow yourself to live on the outside, what really exists on the inside of your soul with your values, integrity and needs. Match your inside to your outside world so they become one and the same. Focus on what's true for you without the concern of what others may think. When you do these things you are becoming a vibrational match to everything that is rightfully yours just waiting to show up in your life which can ultimately feel like a miracle, fulfilling your desires in ways greater than you ever imagined possible.

Rule #3: Be aware of your thoughts. When you watch what pops up in your mind throughout the day about your desires you will begin to notice if you've got more negative chatter going on or more positive chatter. Or as I call it, your Gremlin or your Genie. Once there is an awareness of your thoughts your world can begin to change. In a heartbeat, you can change your thought and create it to be anything that makes you feel good. You can even take yourself on a mini vacation. Use your imagination to create a scene that you're in where you feel a sense of joy, fun, peace or calmness. Whatever you need at the time. Go there alone, so you don't have to pay attention to how anyone else is feeling or respond to what he or she may say. This is strictly for you and your well-being. You only need to go there for a very short time, just create change in your thought pattern and raise your vibration enough so you become aligned with what you're desiring by feeling good. When you feel a shift leave the scene and go about your day. You can do this many times throughout the day to create the shift you're wanting. I promise you, the more you do this, the less your Gremlin will show up, the better you'll feel and the quicker your desires get fulfilled.

Rule # 4: Although this rule is simple it tends to be the hardest to grasp at a cellular, all knowing level. Trust. Trust that all your desires have been heard and are in the process of being fulfilled. When your thoughts, feelings, words and actions are in alignment, your unfulfilled desires will be fulfilled faster than you can create a new desire.

Rule #5: This rule may be the most important rule of all. Live in gratitude for all that you have in life. No matter what is going on there is always something to be grateful for and the Universe responds so graciously to gratitude when it is authentic and heartfelt. I'm going to suggest that you create a gratitude journal and write in it everyday. It only takes a couple of minutes to come up with a few things to be grateful for each day and when you do this you'll open yourself up to receiving more and more things to thank the Universe for.

So embrace your unfulfilled desires and be willing, for the next 30 days, to play by these five rules and see what shows up differently for you. You may find certain desires getting fulfilled or maybe you'll feel lighter about life in general. Either way, if you don't give it a whirl you'll never know what could have been.

The starting point of all wealth creation is desire. That is having something to wake up for in the morning, something that keeps you awake in the day and something in your life that makes you stay hungry. Nature always wraps up in strong desires that something which knows nothing like impossible and accepts no such thing as thing as failure. Therefore in your quest for wealth creation, you first need to desire wealth before you create wealth. If you do not desire it you cannot have it.

Wishing is not the same thing as desiring. Your wish for wealth is not the same thing as your desire for wealth. They are quite different. When you desire wealth, you are willing to burn all bridges in your quest for wealth creation and cut off all sources of retreat. Wishing will never bring you wealth. Rather it is a burning desire that becomes an obsession which makes planning for the ways to acquire wealth possible and backed by persistence that makes wealth creation realizable. All those who have accumulated great wealth did some amount of day-dreaming, hoping, wishing, desiring and finally planning before they acquire their wealth. Note however that your desire for wealth alone will never bring you wealth. You need to back it up with faith and a belief that you can acquire it.

To create wealth in abundant quantity, you need to desire to be wealthy and to have it. It is your desires for wealth that will enable you identify the means of acquiring it. This world is filled with opportunities in wealth creation. The opportunities will not find you. Rather, you are the one to find the opportunities. Unless you desire wealth however, you cannot recognize the opportunities when they present themselves. It is only desire that can perform the impossible, even in wealth creation.

All men of abundant wealth in the world today are men of very, very strong desires for wealth. They did not just wish for wealth. They desire it and it became an obsession to them and they burnt all bridges of retreat in their quest to acquire their wealth. They never thought about failure, only success. And succeed they did. Think of the Bill Gates, the Donald Trumps, the Jerry Yangs, the Michael Dells, the Rockefellers etc.

Sex is an integral part of human relationships. It can be difficult when one partner has decreased libido and desire , and a lack of sex can put a damper on any relationship. While some people make a claim that sex is not important in a relationship, even the Christian bible speaks of sex as something that a man and wife must do to keep their relationship alive.With sex being such an important aspect of our relationships and marriages, it is important to explore the reasons why decreased libido and desire occurs so that a solution to the problem can be found.

Decreased Libido And Desire - Relationship Issues

A marriage is like a rollercoaster (as is any relationship), and there are ups and downs. You may go through a dry patch with your spouse where you do not make love as often as you used to. There may not be any medical cause for this decreased libido and desire but lifestyle or aging. If one spouse is working nights and the other is working days, that lifestyle may not be conducive to making love. This is even more so if you have children. Many married couples find it easy to be physically intimate after the children go to bed. If one spouse is working nights that often makes it impossible to find alone time to make love. In addition, aging is another very common cause of decreased libido and desire . As our bodies age the sex drive often decreases. Some people find taking medication helps them to remain active with their sexuality while others simply go with the natural changes in life.

There are other common and non medical causes for a decreased libido and desire . Having a baby can wreak havoc on a new mother's body image. If your wife does not feel comfortable in her own skin, it may be very difficult for her to make love to you. She feels different as her body has changed through childbirth, and she may be embarrassed or ashamed of her new body.

In addition, having a new baby means lack of sleep and added stress. If a husband and wife are exhausted and stressed out at the end of the day, sex is the last thing on their mind.

Finally, breastfeeding can also decrease libido and desire. A fun part of sex, the breasts, is now off limits. That can turn many men and women off. In addition, breastfeeding makes the walls of the vagina very smooth which can lead to painful sex. Even if the new mother does not suffer from a decreased libido and desire , she will most likely need lubricant to make sex comfortable for her.

Another common cause for decreased libido and desire is relationship blues. If one or both parties in the relationship are not happy, it is a high possibility that the sex drive will be very low or nonexistent. The key to having a healthy sex life is to have a healthy and happy relationship to begin with.

Decreased Libido And Desire - Medical And Drug Issues

Other common causes for decreased libido and desire stem from medical and drug issues. Certain illnesses and the medication that one must take with these illnesses can cause a decrease in sex drive. While this does not bother some people, if it is bothersome you may want to consult your caregiver to see if there is another medication you can take for your problem. Sometimes, however, the choice must be made between being healthy and well and not having a sex drive and having a sex drive but suffering from your illness. A caring partner should want you to make the former choice.

In addition to prescription drugs, illegal drugs—as well as alcohol—can cause a decreased libido and desire . Illegal drugs destroy your body and your function, so it is natural that excessive use of drugs like cocaine and heroin would decrease your sex drive. Some illegal substances have been known to enhance the sexual experience, but it is temporary and certainly not worth the long term risk of a decreased sex drive.

There are many reasons why you may experience a decreased libido and desire . If you are concerned, make an appointment with your caregiver to discuss your options for treatment.

There is a philosophy going around that if you desire something enough in a positive way, and you visualize it continually the universe will deliver the fruits of that desire.

There are some instances depicted where a man really wants something like a new sports car and he meditates on it (don't try this!), sees it in his minds eye, tries it out in his imagination, surrounds himself with picture of it, etc; and lo a behold this sports car manifests one day on the gross plane and he is able to possess the object of his desire. Of course possessing the object of your material desire does not give you happiness. Does the universe fulfill all your desire secrets if the desires are strong enough?

There is an interesting word "synchronicity", which means that events that are not causally related (one event being the cause of the other) occur together by the action of some unknown (in this case the universe) factor. Sometimes we are speaking about someone else, and at the same time the person calls on the phone. That would be an example of synchronicity.

How to explain this through the lens of Vedic knowledge?

The universe is not unconscious nor it a big genie responding to everyone's wishes, nor is it impersonal energy responding to our mental energetic radiation! We know that behind all the universal functions there is Krishna as the creator, lawgiver, overseer, proprietor, universal Super soul, individual Super soul, etc. So, in other words "not a blade of grass moves without the will of the Supreme Personality of Godhead."

Also there are 33 million demigods who control the universe under Krishna's direction. So, why does it seem that when people desire things with great intensity and they meditate on the fruits of their desire, the universe responds to their desires? Srila Prabhupada explains this nicely in a purport:

And so, when the living entity is bewildered in his desires, the Lord allows him to fulfill those desires, but the Lord is never responsible for the actions and reactions of the particular situation, which may be desired. Being in a bewildered condition, therefore, the embodied soul identifies him with the circumstantial material body and becomes subjected to the temporary misery and happiness of life. The Lord is the constant companion of the living entity as Paramatma, or the Super soul, and therefore He can understand the desires of the individual soul, as one can smell the flavor of a flower by being near it. Desire is a subtle form of conditioning for the living entity. The Lord fulfills his desire, as he deserves: Man proposes and God disposes. The individual is not, therefore, omnipotent in fulfillinghis desires. The Lord, however, can fulfill all desires, and the Lord, being neutral to everyone, does not interfere with the desires of the minute independent living entities. Purport Bg 5.15

In other words if one is functioning under the laws of Karma one has a certain stock of good karma and a certain stock of bad karma. The good karma we can compare to a positive balance in our bank account. When we have a strong desire to buy something, at a certain point that desire motivates us to take the money out of our bank account so that we can purchase the item. In the same way when we have a strong desire to get something in this world, Krishna as the Super soul is aware of this, and this desire is fulfilled, if (and this is a big if) we have enough good karma in our bank account. Now, when we take the good karma out of our karmic bank account, the amount of good karma in our karmic bank account is reduced by the amount of the withdrawal. So after some time there will be no more good karma left and we can desire till the cow jumps over the moon, but there will be no response. What about the devotee's desires? A devotee has no bad or good karma.

All karma bad and good is eradicated even by namabhasa chanting. Krishna reciprocates with devotee's desires, but he will only fulfill those desires that are helpful to the devotee's spiritual progress. So, it is important for devotees to have proper desires and the stronger the devotional desire is the quicker that desire will be fulfilled.

What is a desire? A desire is something you really want with your heart and soul. Of course there are degrees of intensity of desires. When someone wants something with great intensity that is called intense greed. Prabhupada describes this intense greed for pure devotional service as the "best path available."

How do we develop this intense greed? In the material world greed is developed by the process of thinking, feeling and willing. In other words we think of something (take some food like pizza for example). The more we think about that sense object the more we get attached to it. Then we begin to feel that object of our senses. In the case of pizza we begin to salivate and almost taste it as we are visualizing our interacting with that object. Then the stage of willing comes where the desire is so intense, we act.

If we are negative we are meditating on a negative and this is what we will get-a negative. In other words if we are contemplating giving up this or not thinking about that we will develop a stronger attachment to this or that by that negative contemplation.

After contemplation of Krishna in a positive way we enter the stage of feelings. What does that mean? We picture ourselves the way we want to be.

We need to develop an intense internal vision and an intense external (the entire world taking up Krishna consciousness) vision of Krishna consciousness. These wishes will come true. Krishna will fulfill them. When our meditation/vision is harmonious with Krishna's desires, success is sure.

Whether you are aware of it or not, the law of attraction is constantly affecting your life. Unfortunately, if you dont control your feelings and your thoughts, which send messages to the Universe in the form of vibrations, this law is not likely working in your favor much of the time. You can change that, though, if you follow some basic (but powerful) law of attraction tips. By doing so, you can begin to attract the things you want in your life, such as wealth, love, or even your dream car. This article discusses two powerful law of attraction tips to help you.

Know Exactly What You Do Want

One of the most important law of attraction tips anyone can give you is this: you need to be crystal clear regarding what you want to attract into your life. Typically, when people first hear about the law of attraction, they write down everything they want. Their list usually includes things like to have lots of money, or to fall in love, etc.

The problem is, those are rather vague desires, and vague doesnt work when it comes to law of attraction tips. For example, lots of money to one person may be several hundred dollars, whereas for someone else, it may be millions of dollars. And the Universe cant tell the difference!

If your idea of lots of money is in the millions, youre probably not going to be thrilled with a hundred extra dollars every two months! So, for this first of the law of attraction tips, it is essential that you understand that being vague just wont work.

Clarity regarding your desires is a key factor in all law of attraction tips. You have to be really specific, so the Universe can know precisely what you want to attract. If its lots of money, then state exactly how much. If it is to fall in love, then describe that relationship that perfect partner in detail. You are much more likely to attract your desires when you are very clear and specific.

Picture it in Your Mind, Tapping into All Your Senses

Visualizing your desires as if they were all in your life today not tomorrow or next year is one of the most effective law of attraction tips. However, when most people visualize, they just create a mental picture. The only sense they use is sight. They see what they want, but they dont also imagine how it feels to the touch, or how it smells, or sounds, or tastes. The more you can tap into all of your senses (as well as your emotions) when you visualize, the better!

For example, lets say you really want to attract your dream home. When you picture it in your mind, dont just focus on what it would look like. Imagine what the steps feel like as you walk up them towards the door. When you open the door, imagine how your new home would smell? What sounds would you hear? Would there be music playing? Or a fire crackling in the fireplace? What would the furniture feel like when you sit on it? How would the dinner your cooked in your dream kitchen taste? These law of attraction tips work best when you engage all your senses!

The more law of attraction tips you can learn, the better. However, the two law of attraction tips discussed here are two of the most powerful. If you apply them regularly in your life, you will find yourself attracting your desires more readily than you ever thought possible!

What qualities would make a Russian women a perfect wife for a Western men? Taking a look at a few of the things that each of them desire in a mate, sheds some light on this question:

American men secretly wish to find a sweet, old-fashioned girl - steeped in tradition, just like good old Dad did. They love the idea of taking care of, and spoiling their princesses - who they will joyfully spend their lives with. Although companionship is also an important quality to consider, men long to lavish attention on a woman who believes in, and supports them, through thick and thin. Someone who stays confident, and never questions, that her man will somehow make everything alright - no matter what it is, is something some men only dream they could have with their woman. And when a girl needs only her man to show her the things about life she doesn't know, a man's heart is won forever. The simple fact is - a man wants a woman who makes him see the man he's always longed to be, looking back in his mirror at him - a man others respect, love, and have confidence in. Someone who can make him feel this way, is a damsel worth rescuing from the dragon.

Many girls from the east want a hero to save her from drudgery. She looks up to the man who makes everything wrong right again - and sweeps her off her feet by showering her with attention. And these women believe what tradition says - men are here to love, adore and protect the gentler sex - making sure she has everything she needs, and more - in life. Her prince would willingly break his back providing her with a nice house, good food, beautiful clothes - and a family if she desires one.

Her job is making a loving home for her hero to return to each day. Making sure that a hot dinner is waiting on the table, she might greet him at the door with his favorite drink in hand to welcome him home. She teaches her children to respect, and show love, for their father for everything he does for them. She offers her support, both mentally and physically, when he needs to unload stress at the end of the day.

Collectively, men have been losing touch with the one identity they've had since birth, and were told was the only one they would ever need - their right to be wise and loving counselor, provider of all desires, and strong protector of the fairer sex and her offspring. Ever since the battle sounded the feminist movement, the changes in both the roles and the attitudes of some American women have made western men unsure of where they stand with with women nowadays - and that has caused some women to lose their femininity with men - because of the confusion.

To most males, the perfect woman is both feminine and sexy - but also happy enough in her womanly role that she's perfectly happy to stay completely in her own realm. In addition to renowned feminine beauty and compliant natures, many of the Russian girls desire to have that very same traditional relationship, the men have secretly feared were becoming a thing of the past. But, these girls understand and concur with the need for differences between the sexes - and have no desire to cross any of the boundaries crossed by some in the past.

To Russian women looking for a hero, it's a simple equation of boy and girl adding up to the right answer. As they see it, they are in the role God intended for them - and they have no desire to step outside of it and attempt to take on the very difficult job of being a man.

Qualities that make a Russian women a perfect wife for a western men are evident - based on the fact that what she has to offer, and is looking for, bares a striking resemblance to what he offers, and needs, in a mate, as well.

It’s no mystery that “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”. We all know it’s easy enough to displease a woman. But how to please a woman? That’s a different mystery.

Women are complicated creatures and it’s sometimes tricky to figure out what turns us on and off in bed. The good news is we know what we want and, by paying attention and experimenting a little, soon enough you’ll be in on all the best desire secrets.

We’re here to help solve the puzzle of what women really want from their man in bed. The secret desires women have been afraid to tell you are finally revealed. So read up and put your new knowledge to work--tonight.

Start Early
One of the main differences between men and women is the question of foreplay. Women love it and want it to last—the build-up is sometimes better than the main event. To really please your woman, indulge her in some slow, teasing, PG-13 action to set the mood, build her desire and show her you know what makes her happy.

Take Charge

Women can be in charge in the office, kitchen, and just about anywhere else. But sometimes we like to sit back and have a man take the lead when it comes to sex. Switch things up from your usual routine and initiate a romp when she least expects it, or mix things up and take sex out of the bedroom and into a more unexpected venue. Women love surprises, whether they come in the form of material gifts or a sexual treat.

Spill Your Secrets

Women aren’t the only ones with bedroom sex secrets that need to be shared. If there’s something you like that your woman isn’t delivering, don’t be shy: women want to please their man and are open to hearing some gentle hints about what turns you on. So speak up and guide your girl—you’re guaranteed to be happy with the results.

Listen Up

If you pay attention, you can figure out women’s secret desires all on your own. When you do something that really turns your girl on in bed, you’ll be able to tell. Repeat these moves and you’re home free. The best lovers get a good rep by listening and learning from experience, trying some new moves, finding what works, and what’s better to never repeat again. It’s time to tune in, and turn things on.

Turns out, women’s desires aren’t such a big mystery: it’s all about watching her reactions and remembering what moves really heat things up. Each woman is different—so learn what turns her on. Now that you’re in on women’s secrets, it’s time to have fun putting them into practice. But shhhh. Don’t tell that we told.

Being able to make a woman feel desire is a sure shot method to build real and intense attraction with her. If you are looking for female attraction desire secrets to make a woman feel desire for you, then you want to pay attention. Otherwise, you just might end up making some mistakes that will keep you from generating the kind of heat that a woman needs to feel in order to desire YOU.

Here are some female attraction secrets that you just have to know to make a woman feel desire:

1. You have to create a connection with her on a sexual level. If you cannot connect with a woman on a sexual level, then you better get used to being that guy friend that she chats with and complains about her boyfriend with. A lot of guys can become friends with an attractive woman, but to make her want to be more than just friends with you, you have to connect on a sexual level.

2. You have to talk to her in a seductive way. This trips a lot of guys up, as they end up talking to a woman like she's another one of the guys OR, they end up talking to her in a way that is less than masculine. If you want to be able to really create desire in a woman, than you have to be able to talk to a woman seductively.

3. She needs to see your social value. Your social value has a lot to do with your personality as well as your leadership skills. What do I mean by this? You cannot be the kind of guy that just goes along with whatever a woman says and expect to generate heat or sexual tension with her. You have to make her see YOUR value as a man and she will start to desire YOU.

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If your heart has ever felt the need for a soothing and relaxing vacation filled with precious memories and moments, the rental apartments located in Morzine (location Morzine in French) can be the answer to your inner desires. Filled with nature’s own delicate treasure house, Morzine offers a once in a lifetime opportunity for travelers to blend their intellect with the healing balm of nature.

You can rediscover your lost persona, or walk away with a completely new identity once you have faced the thrill of the senses through a memorable holiday. The presence of personalized wooden cottages, apartments and studios in a picture perfect postcard setting of the French Alps is the ultimate craving of any traveler, and it can all be yours at an extremely affordable price.


You can be a part of the relaxing and soothing ambience of France’s own rich cultural heritage as the landscape all around you would mesmerize your aesthetic senses, building the portrait of a finer quality in your soul. The rich and vibrant ski resort, filled with an exotic flavor of the heart and mind would help you move out of your traditional shell and provide an experience that you have never seen before.

You can shed all inhibitions and join in the fun and frolic of the mountain chalet rental (chalet location, according to French traditional language), from mountain bike races to long hiking trails. If you have the desire to try out something new, you will never find a dull moment in the picturesque city of Morzine, filled with smiles.


If you are looking for the adventure of a lifetime, the diverse skiing options with the perfect weather conditions would get your adrenaline pumping in no time. You can race through the snow in a snowboarding session or challenge the skies as you move up in a hot air balloon. The panoramic view of the entire city can be yours through a personal helicopter ride or you may choose to ascend to the top yourself through ice climbing activities.

If you are more into a comforting, serene outlook your chalet rental (chalet location to a French native) could transform you completely though golfing and swimming sessions in summer, or small hikes in the winter. Whatever mood you might have, Morzine would lay out the perfect vacation card.

Holiday spots in exotic locations are not uncommon in the world. However, very few could match up to the timeless tradition of Morzine and its cultural heritage. You can immerse yourself in local activities and enjoy the great food and people’s company. Morzine offers you the complete choice of selecting your own vacation package, the way you want to spend it. There is nothing more soothing than a holiday in the heart of France, as you can rent the cottage directly from the owners, without having to pay any extra commission or service charges to agents.

The Morzine experience not only offers you the most complete and affordable vacation, the rental apartments in Morzine (location Morzine in its original French beauty) help in forming the bridge between you and your soul, a connection that you cherish for a lifetime.

Oh, summer! The warmest and most romantic time of the year! It's the time of vacation and hot sexual affairs, new impressions, dramatic expectations, surprises and gifts. But what should we do if summer is so hot, that you wanna take off your clothes?

You are the sexiest woman in the world (some self-admiration won't be a bad thing). No matter if you've got your own office or you share it with your colleagues, you can add the pinch of naughtiness when it's too hot outside. For instance, put on low-necked dress: you'll feel more comfortable on hot weather and negotiations will be successful.

Trifle yourself with one more sexy lingerie set or luxurious peignoir. Every woman is an indomitable and tender cougar inside. Feel yourself a real huntress in a Lacy mini-dress of a black color. If you prefer to be a mysterious Amazon, without taking off lingerie, sexy Decadence Halter Teddy is your choice! Easy to care for and take off! Try this wonderful out for sexy look and lovely appearance!

Fascinate, intrigue, excite with your charming look! Summer is the time for love, joyful and romantic advantages! Just imagine the very moment, and a White chiffon babydoll is on your hot body. One touch is enough to excite sensations!

There is a strict lady and a little girl in us, so, no matter what preferences you have, you'll surely find your "gift" in our store!